Mary Metcalf

METCALF, Mary (D’urbano) of Malden, MA passed away on July 26, 2018 at the age of 66, surrounded by her family after a valiant battle with cancer. Mary was the devoted mother of Alfred Disessa, Anthony Disessa, Daniel Disessa, Joseph Disessa and Sonya Salem. Born in Boston, Mary was the beloved daughter of the late Mary (Lunetta) D’urbano and Antonio D’urbano.

She was the sister of Tereasa (D’urbano) Pulicari, Madeline (D’urbano) Harris, the late Anthony D’urbano, Daniel D’urbano, Leonard D’urbano and Vincent D’urbano.

She is survived by many nieces, nephews, grandchildren, cousins and friends. Mary was a relentlessly strong woman and very proud mother & grandmother. Our Family would like to thank the doctors, nurses and staff at Beth Israel Deaconess Medical Center who worked so tenaciously with Mary on her journey.

A Mass Celebrating Mary’s Eternal Life will be held in Sacred Heart Rectory 297 Main St, Malden, MA 02148 on Saturday, August 11th at 10:30am. All friends and family are welcome to attend.


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13 Condolences

  1. Donna Gioco on August 6, 2018 at 2:16 pm

    No more pain Mary. May you fly with the angels. AMEN

  2. Alice Amoroso Mitchell on August 6, 2018 at 2:47 pm

    Mary was a very close and lovely friend of mine from the North End. She was strong and had great things to say about her close family. She was so proud of her daughter! Her family loved her and she adored them. My friend I will miss you. Until we meet in heaven ! My heart goes out to her wonderful family and friends that loved her so much. Love you my sister!
    Alice Amoroso Mitchell

  3. Eric Eienne & Family... on August 6, 2018 at 2:49 pm

    So sorry for your loss. R.I.P.
    Mary fly high with the angels & your Brothers

  4. Patty Cuoco Caruso on August 6, 2018 at 4:47 pm

    Mary was a childhood friend of mine, may she rest now in eternal peace

    My thoughts and prayers are with her family

  5. Panfilo on August 6, 2018 at 8:10 pm

    Rest in peace mary. God bless you an your. Family. One. Of the nicest people i met

  6. Lynn Kehoe on August 6, 2018 at 9:31 pm

    I met Mary a couple of times at family parties. She was a very nice person. I know what a good friend she was to the Cresente family. She was very loved and will be missed dearly. May you rest in peace Mary. Condolences and prayers to all who knew her as well.

  7. carol boyd piazza on August 7, 2018 at 5:29 am

    your at peace mary. will miss you my friend.

  8. Tia Harris on August 7, 2018 at 4:09 pm

    Aunty Mary
    I was blessed to have you for my aunt now God has tak en you into paradise I will miss you and love you for ever
    R I P

  9. Violet Harris on August 7, 2018 at 4:24 pm

    My friend my party pal one of the best people you will ever meet go in peace Mary we will.all meet again in the end


  10. Renee Crescente on August 8, 2018 at 11:26 pm

    You will be missed Mary. I know my mom will miss her dearest friend. I will always remember my childhood memories at your house. Always had the best halloween parties for all us kids. Mary was always so giving and willing to help out anyone. After my son was born she visited me and I will never forgot her thoughtfullness. The Crescente family will miss you so very much. May you rest in internal peace.

  11. Virginia belliveau on August 9, 2018 at 10:31 pm

    Rest In Peace mary

  12. Cynthia Paquette on August 13, 2018 at 8:55 pm

    Mary, I’m so glad I had the chance to know you and say thank you for being such a good friend to Scout McGovern. Scout took such good care of you right up to the end.. always there for you, doing errands, taking you to chemo, cleaning your apartment and doing your laundry. She always had you come first and foremost. You meant so much to her and caring for you while your family was busy was her way of saying “thank you” for taking care of her too. Scout will miss you beyond anything and I will miss you being there for her.
    Rest now… you have completed a strong battle. You are surrounded now with truth, light and love. No more worries. Peace Mary, with love and thankfulness.

  13. Frankie imbergamo on August 17, 2018 at 8:26 pm

    My condolences mary was a childhood friend in the north mary

    Frankie Imbergamo

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